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How We Can Help!

These questions are here to help you understand how we work and what you can expect, so you can decide whether this support feels right for you.

 

My approach combines therapeutic care with clear, practical guidance to help you feel calmer, clearer, and more in control.

How Can I Help with High-Conflict Co-Parenting?

I provide one-to-one support for parents navigating co-parenting with a high-conflict, abusive, or controlling ex-partner.

This includes both emotional support and practical communication strategies, helping you stay calm, clear, and in control when communication feels difficult or overwhelming.

Support with High-Conflict or Abusive Co-Parenting

You might be looking for support with:

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  • Understanding patterns of controlling or abusive behaviour in co-parenting

  • managing stressful or triggering communication with an ex-partner

  • knowing what to say — and what not to say — in high-conflict situations

  • drafting calm, clear, and boundaried responses

  • parallel parenting and reducing conflict

  • building emotional steadiness and confidence

  • organising notes, timelines, and evidence for family court

  • preparing for CAFCASS involvement

  • reviewing CAFCASS reports and identifying concerns

  • navigating child arrangements where there are safeguarding concerns

 

High-Conflict Co-Parenting Support: How This Works

This support combines:

a calm, therapeutic space to process what’s happening
practical tools for communication with a difficult ex-partner
clear strategy to reduce conflict and improve consistency

You’re not just working out what to do — you’re supported to respond thoughtfully, rather than react under pressure.

What You Gain from Support

After a session, you can expect:

  • clearer thinking in high-conflict situations

  • more confident, controlled communication

  • practical wording you can use immediately

  • a stronger sense of emotional and practical control

  • CAFCASS Preparation Support


If you are preparing for CAFCASS, I offer structured support to help you feel clear and confident.

This includes:

  • understanding what CAFCASS looks for

  • organising and presenting concerns clearly

  • preparing what to say in meetings

  • staying calm and focused during conversations

  • reviewing reports and identifying areas to question

  • Get Support with High-Conflict Co-Parenting


If you need support navigating co-parenting with a high-conflict or abusive ex-partner, you can start with a short session or book more in-depth support.

Start with a Taster Session
Book a 50-Minute Session

Testimonies

Sabina helped me step back, react less emotionally and without fear.dispite his attempts to provoke me

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High Conflct Coprenting Support

She guided me on the language to use in response to my Children's Father

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Documentation and Communication support​

I recived valuable guidance from Sabina on how to structure a letter in response to Cafcass

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Documentation and Communication support

I felt unheard and misunderstood, particualry concerning the impact on my children, but Sabina just got it 

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Emotional Adjustment Coaching

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