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I am a qualified Social Worker and Psychosocial Therapist with over 20 years’ specialist experience in mental health, child safeguarding, domestic abuse, specifically coercive control. I bring together professional expertise and lived understanding to support individuals facing complex, high-conflict family situations.

Its My family currently provides consultancy services to Origami Ltd, delivering specialist family support and psychosocial interventions. Through this work, I support executive organisations, including accountancy firms, by offering tailored, family-focused support to individuals navigating separation, child arrangement negotiations, and the transition into parenthood.

Alongside this, I also provide dedicated support to mothers in the perinatal period who are navigating child protection processes, safeguarding assessments, and family court scrutiny during an already vulnerable time.

 

Why I Do This Work

My work is both personal and professional.

After becoming a mother in 2019, I found myself navigating co-parenting in the context of manipulation and post-separation abuse. Safeguarding concerns about my child were minimised, and patterns of behaviour were often treated as isolated incidents rather than recognised as part of a wider dynamic to cause harm.

Like many protective parents, I experienced the exhaustion of destabilising communication, covert bullying, and the ongoing fear that harm to my child would only be acknowledged once it became undeniable.

 

What became clear was this: emotional and psychological abuse, particularly coercive control and its impact on children, is incredibly difficult to evidence and communicate, especially within systems that are often focused on reaching agreement based on the presumption of a child having the right to contact with both parents, rather than prioritising risk

Sabina Challenger

My Professional Background

I am a qualified social worker with over two decades of experience across mental health services, safeguarding, and domestic abuse practice.

 

Qualifications

BA (Hons) Social Work
Diploma in CBT and CFT Principles
Undergraduate Certificate in Mental Health, Psychiatric Liaison, and Crisis Intervention
Postgraduate Certificate in Approved Mental Health Practice

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Safeguarding and Communication Specialist

My Story and Mission

Testimonies

Sabina helped me step back, react less emotionally and without fear.dispite his attempts to provoke me

High Conflct Coprenting Support

She guided me on the language to use in response to my Children's Father

Documentation and Communication support

I recived valuable guidance from Sabina on how to structure a letter in response to Cafcass

Documentation and Communication support

I felt unheard and misunderstood, particualry concerning the impact on my children, but Sabina just got it 

Emotional Adjustment Coaching

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Sabina Challenger Consultancy LTD Trading as Its My Family 2025

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